Thank you for sharing your story with others. We can gain much hope from the healing of others.
Your list of things to look for is very helpful. We all need to be aware of these possible changes in our children. I am sure that others will find this information very useful.
Please don't blame yourself for the abuse that others suffered at this man's hands. He is the one and only to blame! Even if you did not tell...YOU are not to blame. YOU were a child..a scared child. He was the adult..the person who should have been protecting you and his other children.
I am sooo sorry that this happened to you...I am proud of you for telling and for sharing your story with others.